IS THIS YOU?

  • You’re an independent woman.

  • You are thriving in your career.

  • You are living your BEST life.

But you deeply desire conscious, compassionate and connected love with a healthy masculine man who wants to build a legacy with you.

Only right now, RECEIVING isn’t your super-power. 

It’s an area of your life that you find challenging to say the least.


You never thought of it as a problem before, only now you’re starting 

to realise that it’s impacting on your intimate relationship or lack of one.


As a child you learned that you had to earn the love of your parents/caregivers.


When you were “naughty” or didn’t “listen” they withdrew their love from you.


You learned this is how LOVE works.


That you have to work HARD to RECEIVE it.


When you heal from this wound you stop “working” for love, you become 

READY TO RECEIVE love.


This way, you ATTRACT your right MATCH.


Who feels DRAWN to you and falls in love with you, 

JUST AS YOU ARE.


Whether you are doing something for him or not.

Here’s what you need to know.

If you can’t give him space to THINK or DO for himself, you are in rescuing mode.

Client Breakthroughs



Is this where you're at?

  • You feel the need to go 50/50 at the end of a meal.

  • You’re accommodating to him and always meet him halfway so he doesn’t “have” to do anything for you.

  • You show that you’re a strong woman and you don’t “need” anyone.

  • You lead the way opening doors rather than allowing him to lead the way and open them for you.

  • Dropping back behind a man feels so uncomfortable for you.

  • When you try to be loving and kind, you fall into MOTHERING mode rather than embodying your feminine QUEEN.

  • YOU schedule what time you will meet or speak on the phone.

  • YOU always reach out first.

  • YOU swoop in with your own ideas before giving him a chance to figure it out.

  • YOU tell him which direction to go in when he is driving you somewhere, or you straight get into the driving seat yourself.

Does any of this sound familiar?

You have these two CORE BELIEFS:

  • Whatever you want, you buy it.

  • You only DEPEND on you.

You love CHARLIE’S ANGELS and you love the idea of INDEPENDENT women.

Like Beyonce says, “You buy your own diamonds and you buy your own rings”

BUT..!

You’re TIRED & FRUSTRATED that you’re still alone (or feeling like you’re all alone in your relationship).

You've done some inner healing work yet still....

  • Do you walk around with a “DO NOT ENTER/DISTURB!” sign in your energy.


  • Make a man jump through hoops before you let him get close to your heart even when you can see he’s one of the good guys.


  • Take pride in being a “challenge” for men.


  • Make him PASS your “tests” before you will entertain him.


  • Wear your SNOW QUEEN crown like a medal.


  • Protect your heart with layers upon layers of achievements & busy work.


WOULD YOU LIKE?

  • To attract a High Calibre man who wants to be devoted to you.

  • A man who makes it his life’s mission to please, protect, provide and lead so he can build a legacy with you

  • A companion for life, one that really gets you.

  • To create a fulfilling life with your best friend, your soul mate, your husband.

  • To live a life full of peace, love & freedom doing what God created you to do, praise Him and leave a LEGACY.

Client Breakthroughs

THIS IS WHAT YOU'LL GET

    1. Welcome message - Start here

    2. Mindset Foundations for Success

    3. Intro

    4. 5 step approach to release anxiety

    1. Module 1 - Radiate Magnetic Energy

    1. Part 1

    2. Part 2

    1. Module 3 - Become A Match for A High Calibre Man

    2. The HCM (Audio Meditation)

    1. Module 4 - Master Your Mindset

    1. Module 5 - Heal Parental Wounds

About this course

  • £1,400.00
  • 19 lessons
  • 6 hours of video content

All of the modules are focussed, potent and intentionally short to make it as easy, fun and do-able for you!


You won’t need hours and hours blocked out in your busy schedules, the longest is about 25mins long but the exercises I encourage you to complete is where the true magic happens. 


Take them at your own pace and do the ones you feel called to. 


You can always keep coming back to them in fact my advice is that you do listen to the videos and do the exercises on more than one occasion. 


Keep going until you feel complete with the course. 


I’ve been told that the course has everything you need for the inner work required so you can show up as the best version of yourself in your soul aligned relationships. 


Remember the teacher/lessons come forward when the student is ready. 


Everyone is on their own journey and timing, I only ask that you don’t compare your journey with anyone else’s. 


Everything is working out for you in perfect timing! This is when you get the BEST results.


So if you are READY to RECEIVE, and you’re READY and willing to be guided..let’s dig in.


🖤 Module 1 - Energy

In this module I teach you the 5 steps to radiate loving energy to draw it in towards you just like two opposite ends of a magnet attract. You get to use the science of energy to attract in your right match too! You will learn how ENERGY works and how you can use it in your favour to find your soul mate.

🖤 Module 2 - Healing your Heart

This section has been split into two parts to give you time and space to drop your guard first before healing from past experiences. You will learn how to go from being a Snow Queen who pushes the right men away, to the Queen of Hearts who embodies LOVE to attract him faster. This is about the IDENTITY work that is the real needle mover in this inner work. We talk about love & acceptance, building self worth & rediscovering your own value.

🖤 Module 3 - Attract your Soul Mate

This part is about becoming the right match for a high calibre man. This is taking accountability for your part. Rather than blaming men, remaining a victim, this places the power in your own hands using my High Calibre Method (HCM) to attract a High Calibre Man. This is where your love VISION is created so you know exactly what you’re looking out for. So when you come across it, you KNOW he’s the one.

🖤  Module 4 - Master your Mindset

Use my unique acronyms to become a MAGNET for healthy love using the power of your mind. With the thoughts and beliefs you fuel your mind with, you subconsciously programme your mind with what it looks for out in the world. My MAGNET framework helps you embody this new IDENTITY of a high calibre woman.

🖤  Module 5 - Healing Parental Wounds

Learn about parental wounds with me. This is the game changer. The mother and father wounds are integral and directly related to the way your intimate relationships pan out. Unhealed wounds show up in your relationship like holding up a mirror to your internal world. So when you heal, let go and forgive your past, this is when you begin attracting a new, higher, healthier calibre of men towards you. As you become more loving you attract more of that internal love you already feel inside of yourself. This is how you break the pattern of attracting unavailable men.

🖤  Module 6 - Feminine Communication

Your words matter, the energy behind them matters. Your words can cut him up like a sword to his heart. Loving feminine communication is like watering your favourite orchid so it blossoms. It’s about growing a safe and loving space for the both of you to thrive together in peace & safety taking care of each other’s hearts as if it's your own. You’ll get the 3 reasons why Feminine Communication is essential and 5 ways to soften the wall around his heart so that he lets you in and keeps you in.

🖤  Module 7 - Attracting with Purpose

This is about knowing your purpose and living your life/relationships in alignment with this. When you know your purpose behind it, you stay on track remaining COMMITTED to your love VISION. When your heart and mind are in alignment, the action becomes easier.

🖤  Module 8 -  Release Codependeny

This is a common pattern I see and that’s why I had to add this module on overcoming codependency in your relationships. You will learn where it all started and how to go from Codependent to Independent Queen. This module also touches on the 4 main attachment styles. I cover my own journey and how I overcame this unhealthy pattern. 

In addition to these 8 modules I have added a bonus module on “Guilt and Shame in Religion” as this is a big block for the women I work with. This is a real eye opener!   There are also bonus audios for you to listen to as you sleep or throughout your day, to help you visualise what you are creating so that your subconscious mind gets behind your desire-backed love & life vision. This helps your heart and mind come into alignment making the vision so familiar to you that it’s the only thing you will settle for. This is what makes it feel “easy” if you stay consistent with these practices I teach. Alongside this, as you continue the energy work you will attract into your world opportunities to remain committed to your vision. This is your test. In life we will always be tested & challenged, the question as always is - Do you want it ENOUGH to stay true to your DREAM vision?

So if you know that you want this guidance, tap the button below to get access. I’ll see you on the inside!

Client Results

There are so many unintended convos just coming my way which is making me go deeeeep and find the actual things. Truly feel Allah is guiding this healing journey alhamdulillah as I keep saying yes to Him

I listened to the second module, its amazing and I'm really looking forward to the inner work it has, while listening to it I realized that in order to feel enough I adopted the cute things I liked about other people around me but since they weren't my authentic self it didn't make me feel good and instead contributed to the story of me being not enough until I stopped recently and now I am just me - I have noticed the glow up and change in people's energy towards me. So that's all proof that the authentic me is so lovable and magnetic, I just need to be comfortably me❤️🤩

Shalena Ali It was as usual packed with gems but the biggest was the first exercise of listing down the qualities and visualizing the torch gave my confidence such a boast and it changed my interaction with people.

I have also started to slow down and not be hard on myself to tick off all the to do lists as if I'm operating on some time bomb like before 😂It feels so good to be relaxed and being able to get things done. Every time when I feel this ease I get get so emotional why was I so hard on myself, why I had compassion for everyone but me and so lucky at the same time that now I get to live in peace and ease I always had from Allah😍alhamdulillah

Hey Shalena, just wanted to share that day I went to a museum exhibition on my own and today I ate dinner at my favourite restaurant on my own and I loved it! Alhamdullilah I'm working hard to love my own company again and be best friends with myself! xxx

When I first came across your page, I felt like your posts really described how I felt and behaved and you were so easy to relate to! The issues that you addressed involving masculine and feminine energies were something that I had problems with. Your masterclass was so insightful and it described exactly what I wanted in a relationship as well as in life in general itself. So as well as wanting to be a high calibre woman with a high calibre man, truly want a life of love, joy, peace and freedom and you were all about that! Then when we had that coaching call and you spoke to me about healing wounds that I never knew I even had just took things to another level. The change in perception that you told me about, had straight away made me feel lighter and more at peace. It was the first time I had opened up to a stranger about things I don't really tell anyone and I felt like you gave me sound advice from a place of no judgment whatsoever

Hey Shalena, I've been well thank you. How are you? Loved our first group call yesterday and the activity we did. It really is about getting your mind there already. Something about that activity just got rid of all the negative feelings or anxieties about the future. If this is just a bonus coaching call I cannot wait to see what you have in store for the programme!!

Salam Shalenaaa How are you doing? ❤️ I got my period after 5 months alhamdulillah!! Its all due to trauma release, my body is slowly healing it all alhamdulillah

FAQ

  • Is this only for single women?

    This is also for anyone looking to learn how to deepen emotional connection/attraction with their partner. Every relationship, even a marriage requires regular re-commitment. That means understanding how to keep the emotional attraction alive & kicking.

  • Is this pre-recorded or LIVE?

    This program was recorded live in 2023 and is now available as a self paced course (with the option to upgrade to VIP private one to one zoom calls. Email - [email protected] to upgrade).

  • Is this for me if I'm in therapy/counselling or working with another coach?

    I have worked with several women who have worked with other coaches/therapists and still find my coaching transformational. I have my own unique style. If conscious & connected relationships are what you want to thrive in, then this is the place to be.

  • Is there a money-back guarantee?

    There are no guarantees for results I'm afraid. The results are up to you and the level of work you put in. I have no doubt if you follow my process, coaching & guidance you will most definitely see results and experience transformation. Therefore, there are no refunds.

  • Are there payment plans available?

    Yes, there are payment plans available. Please email [email protected] to enquire. 

ABOUT ME

Shalena Ali

I'm a mindset and relationship coach. I've spent the last 6 years engrossed in learning the key elements of creating successful long lasting & fulfilling relationships. It's my mission to see you thriving in your most aligned, most loving & most fulfilling relationships ever. I can’t wait to support you in becoming a true match for your dream conscious & connected relationships xx